Bro night

I was listening to the radio yesterday morning and the topic was Bro night I was like what is that. Well it is were men who crave other men's attention . Sex has nothing to do with it.

It is just they need there male friends like once a week with no women or children. (men's bible group, Golf, Fishing).

Which to me is a given,but the radio was saying that most if not all men, will not talk about this or tell there wife's about needing there friends for fear of a fight or that there wive will think what is he not getting in our marriage that he has to go get his friends?
Why is it ok for women to have women days/nights with friends but not men?

My mother thinks I am weird because I will suggest to my husband to go out with his buddy's, and if he will be out to late just stay the night pack a bag for a night and just not worry.
She would ask are you fighting I say NO he needs his friends, if UFC is on late or they start the recording late, why would I promote him to drive late at night with all drunk drivers out or weirdos out why can't he have a night to relax.

He doesn't ask or talk about it I suggest to him to go, maybe that is why because he doesn't want to admit that he needs his friends companionship.

When I suggest it he will say " I want to be with you but I want to be with them I tell him don't worry I wont get mad I trust you. Then he gets excited he will start calling all his friends lets go do something,

It kind of makes me think, people need to realize not to worry about what the social networks think and what works best for your marriage. You and your husband/wife are the ones in the marriage not society,what works best for you may not work best for someone else.
it is 2009, and my husband and I have almost hit our 10 year anniversary , which is not very long but for this day and age it is.

talk to you soon
me